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Another conspiracy theory: LGB to T

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The LGB to T theory is a subset of wider “gender ideology” or “gender critical” theories, and is a conspiracy theory claiming that transgender activists are trying to recruit or groom lesbian, gay and bisexual people into becoming transgender. This theory is based on the false assumption that transgender people are not really their affirmed gender, but rather confused or deluded homosexuals, lesbians or bisexuals who have been influenced by “transgender ideology” whatever that is supposed to mean.

There are many arguments against this theory, but here are some that I think are worth considering:

  • The theory is homophobic and transphobic, as it denies the existence and validity of transgender people and their identities, and implies that homosexuality and bisexuality are inferior or undesirable orientations.
  • The theory is unscientific, as it ignores the overwhelming evidence that gender identity is a complex and innate aspect of human development, and that transgender people benefit from affirming their gender identity through social, medical and/or legal means.
  • The theory is illogical, as it contradicts itself by claiming that transgender people are both a threat to and a product of lesbian, gay and bisexual communities, and by ignoring the diversity and fluidity of sexual orientation and gender expression among all people.
  • The theory is unfounded, as it relies on anecdotal and sensationalised stories of detransitioners or regretters, who are a very small minority of transgender people, and who often face external pressures or barriers to accessing appropriate care.
  • The theory is harmful, as it fuels stigma, discrimination and violence against transgender people, especially transgender youth, who are already vulnerable to rejection, bullying and suicide.

In the last decade, since learning I’m autistic, I have come to realise my understanding of gender does not comfortably sit with what I will term the neurotypical binary gender stereotype. Like many autistics, I struggle to understand many social constructs, including that of gender.

In coming to terms with who I am, I have done a lot of reading about gender, gender identity, gender expression, sexuality and sexual expression. I am stating my position here because I see a rise in hatred and violence against the LGBTQIA+ community, especially the transgender community. It has to stop. To those who hold a contrary view to my position as outlined above, in all probability I have already read, carefully considered and dismissed the perspective you hold, so do not attempt to argue your case here. Any such comment will be deleted, and the offender will likely be banned from further comment.

Author: Barry

A post war baby boomer from Aotearoa New Zealand who has lived with migraines for as long as I can remember and discovered I am autistic at the age of sixty. I blog because in real life I'm somewhat backwards about coming forward with my opinions.

7 thoughts on “Another conspiracy theory: LGB to T

  1. I’m CIS but spent a great deal of time within the LGBT+ community, and I have an ex boyfriend who is now a woman. I agree with your views. Sexual attraction and sexual/gender identity are 2 very different things.

    The best theory I ever heard (I don’t remember the source) was that a fetus receives 3 large hormone blasts during development. They theorized that 1 sets the body’s gender, one sets gender identity, and 1 sets gender attraction.

    I suspect that if I were a teen in this time, rather than the 70s, I’d be some form of non-binary/trans.

    • I’ll leave possible explanations to the researchers.

      If I was in my teens now instead of the 1960s, I think too, that I might might have the courage to identify as agender or non-gender. It certainly wasn’t safe back then as an undiagnosed autistic with little comprehension of the accepted social construct around gender of that time.

      • I never considered it as an option back then and there were definitely no words for it. I only knew I had intense penis envy and related to men more than women. That’s still true but I accepted my female body long ago and feel gender neutral now.

        Was autism a diagnosis in the 60s/70s? I didn’t start hearing about it till the 90s.

        • I was diagnosed as autistic in 2010, at the age of 60, and at that time the only “model” of an autistic person was Raymond from “Rain Man” played by Dustin Hoffman who is nothing like I am.

          I’m comfortable identifying as a male, but not as a man, possibly because I was bullied so much by males from my preteens and into adulthood. That was a time when being gay or trans was criminal, and although I was neither, it seems that my mannerisms made people think I was.

          • Same! My strong “masculine” traits make everyone assume I’m lesbian… even some people who’ve known me for years!

            Did getting diagnosed change your life… either due to having a name for your diffetences, or getting meds, or anything?

            • It took about 2 years to accept the diagnosis, and for much of that time I tried to prove that I wasn’t. It has changed my life primarily because I no longer look at myself as a broken/failed human being. Instead I see myself as a whole/complete person who happens to be autistic.

            • That’s great!
              I’ve had a lot of mystery health issues where all I wanted was a dianosis… something that affirmed thete really is/was an issue.

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