Where one person prepares a meal, others who partake of the meal have a responsibility tidy up the kitchen and dining area afterwards. That seems logical and fair to me.
When one makes a mess, one has a responsibility to tidy that mess up. That seems logical and fair also.
So why does it seem so unfair when the first rule above applies only when the wife cooks and the second rule applies only when I cook?
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10 Aug, 2021 at 3:01 pm
Cause we make less $$$
10 Aug, 2021 at 3:02 pm
Happy Wife, Happy Life?
10 Aug, 2021 at 3:13 pm
There is a kind of logic to that I suppose…
But I was brought up with the concept of fairness being paramount.
10 Aug, 2021 at 3:26 pm
May your wife’s fairness be matched by, or live up to, her beauty.
10 Aug, 2021 at 5:08 pm
A thing is fair to the extent it leaves the wife happy
10 Aug, 2021 at 5:30 pm
This is beginning to sound like a feminist conspiracy. For example to this question: “if a husband speaks his mind in a forest where no one can hear him, is he stll wrong?” most wives seem to answer in the affirmative.
10 Aug, 2021 at 5:31 pm
Haha ha. Husband is always wrong, even when he is right
10 Aug, 2021 at 5:42 pm
It seems that way.
10 Aug, 2021 at 3:27 pm
YES… VERY GOOD!!!
10 Aug, 2021 at 3:08 pm
As we’re both retired, that’s hardly relevant 🙂
Besides for most of our respective working careers, my income was the larger.